Preparing for a wedding is undoubtedly exciting, but it is also hard. There’s so many logistics to consider even if you’re engaging a wedding coordinator or planner. And that’s not even considering the emotional or mental aspect of preparing to leave your family home and start a new life and household with your beloved.

So if you know a special lady whose wedding day is drawing close, why not give her a break from the wedding worries with a bridal shower! While traditionally a Western wedding custom, bridal showers (also known as bachelorette parties or hen’s nights locally) are becoming increasingly popular in Singapore. Here these tend to be more intimate gatherings, usually involving the bride, her bridesmaids, and perhaps a few close friends or family members. It’s a night that revolves around fun, laughter, and celebrating the bride's upcoming marriage – in other words, the perfect way to unwind and squeeze in some rest and relaxation before the big day.

Whether you’re planning an upscale afternoon tea, a lively night out on the town, or a relaxing spa day, there are endless possibilities for creating a bridal shower that reflects the bride's personality and preferences. Here are some ideas, tips, and inspiration to help you plan a memorable celebration!

1. Choosing the Perfect Bridal Shower Theme

Setting a theme can transform your bridal shower from a simple gathering into a truly immersive experience. Of course, it can be as simple as just revolving around the bride and her upcoming wedding – but why not take it a step further?

Consider her interests, hobbies, or even her wedding theme to create a cohesive and personalised atmosphere. Theming it around an inside joke or shared memories and experiences (with you guys or with her husband-to-be) can also make the event more sentimental, leading into reminiscing about days gone by as well as looking forward to new memories to be made!

If you’d like to keep it simple, some popular bridal shower themes are:

  • Floral: You can’t go wrong with classic florals. Embrace the beauty of blooms with floral decor, flower crowns, and a cake adorned with edible flowers. You don’t need to stick to typical choices flowers like roses or daisies either – if the bride adores sunflowers or even succulents, theme it around that so she’s surrounded by what she loves! Incorporating flower language can also help sweeten the sentiment.
  • Rustic/Bohemian: The rustic/bohemian look creates a cosy and charming atmosphere with wooden decor, delicate accents (think tea lights or string lights), and natural-accented centerpieces like dried flower bundles.
  • Romantic: Shades of pink and red, balloons shaped like lips or hearts or wedding rings, and cheesy photo props that say “Miss to Mrs” or “Team Bride” – another evergreen choice that’s sure to be a hit!

Don't be afraid to think outside the box and explore unique themes that reflect the bride's personality. A vintage tea party, a glamorous Hollywood gala, or even a superhero-themed celebration can add a fun and unexpected twist to the festivities.

2. Finding the Ideal Venue

The venue sets the stage for your bridal shower, so choose a location that complements your theme and offers the right atmosphere for your celebration. Factors like budget, guest count, catering options, accessibility, and parking availability may also be relevant.

Common bridal shower venues in Singapore include:

  • The Bride's Home or a Close Friend's Home: This offers a comfortable and intimate setting, perfect for smaller gatherings where you can share secrets, reminisce on memories, and just let loose in privacy.
  • Hotel Room: A hotel room provides a luxurious and private space, ideal for a pampering session or a themed party with a small group of besties.
  • Restaurant or Café: A restaurant or café offers a convenient option with catering and a relaxed atmosphere ideal for morning or afternoon celebrations. If possible, book a spot with private seating or the option to put up dividers between your party and the regular diner just for a touch more privacy.
  • Activity Space: Consider a crafts workshop, cooking class, or art jamming session for a fun and interactive experience. The bride can take her mind off wedding planning with an engaging activity and everyone walks away with a trinket or art piece to remind them about this beautiful day.
  • Spa: This option needs no explaining. A spa day provides a relaxing and rejuvenating experience for the bride and her guests. If possible, time it to coincide with the bride’s pre-wedding prep plans and include services like a skin scrub, manicure, or pedicure to help her get wedding-ready.

Of course, this list is non-exhaustive! If you're looking for a more unconventional venue, consider outdoor spaces like Marina Barrage and the Singapore Botanic Gardens, event spaces at cool spots like The Projector, or even museums. These unique locations can add a memorable touch to your bridal shower, transforming it into a fun day out with the gang.

3. Planning Engaging Activities


Bridal shower games are a classic way to break the ice and encourage laughter, especially if not all of the guests are familiar with each other. Some popular game options are:

  • Bridal Bingo: Create bingo cards with wedding-related terms and have guests mark them off as they hear them mentioned.
  • He Said, She Said: Prepare a list of questions about the couple and have guests guess who said what. It can also be a general trivia quiz – for example, does the bride remember what she was wearing on their first date? (Note: You may have to ask the groom for input on these questions beforehand.)
  • Wedding Movie Charades: Act out scenes from famous wedding movies and have guests guess the film.

For a more creative activity, consider a DIY project like making personalised favours, decorating tote bags, or creating a memory book gift for the bride. This is a wonderful way to shower her with love and support.

You can also tailor activities to your chosen theme, such as a flower crown-making station for a floral-themed shower or a cocktail-mixing competition for a tropical-themed party. And if the shower is held at a craft workshop or activity space, you won’t even need to think about an extra favour!

4. Crafting a Delicious Menu

Food instantly enhances any celebration, and a bridal shower is no exception. Whether you’re going big with a splashy buffet or keeping it budget-friendly by ordering in on the day of, it’s worth adding something special to make the event extra memorable.

Consider these options:

  • DIY: Prepare a spread of homemade treats and finger foods for a personal touch. One idea that’s gotten popular recently is a “bring a board night/party” where each guest brings a board full of a specific item. For example, boards of cheeses, dips, grilled meats, chocolates, desserts, or even themed shots and cuisines.
  • Hotel Room Service: If you’re already holding your bridal shower in a hotel, take the opportunity to enjoy a luxurious and convenient dining experience with hotel room service.
  • Professional Caterer: If your event space allows it, hire a caterer to create a customised menu that caters to your specific needs and preferences. Spring for easy-to-eat food ideas like finger foods (e.g. mini quiches, tea sandwiches, canapes) and charcuterie boards or consider interactive food stations like taco bars and dessert tables for a bit more fun.

5. Don't Forget the Cake!


Pictured: Gold Ombre Cake with Gold Leaves - Two Tier

What would any celebration be without a beautiful centerpiece to tie it all together? Edith Patisserie’s stunning selection of bridal shower cake ideas, from classic tiered cakes to some of the best chocolate cakes in Singapore, are perfect for celebrating a sweetheart who deserves it.


Pictured: 4” Mini Crown Cake

Our mini cakes are a great option for individual servings or smaller guest lists, allowing guests to enjoy our delicious flavours even on a budget. And for a personalised touch, consider our customised cupcakes in Singapore that can be designed around the bride's favorite flavours, colours, flowers, interests, or even her wedding theme.

Throwing a memorable bridal shower is a wonderful way to celebrate the bride-to-be and create lasting memories. By carefully planning the decor, venue, games, menu, and gifts for the bride, you can ensure a truly special and personalised experience that’ll sweeten her journey down the aisle. Contact us today to explore our bridal shower cake and dessert offerings and add a touch of sweetness to your celebration!